Wednesday Words: Defining vanilla along with other sexy terms
Each Wednesday, we answer one of the burning questions on your blog. This week Anonymous asks:
Simply want to say the podcast is loved by me. Dawn i think you’re wonderful. I discovered you on Spotify and I’m proud to state that I’ve paid attention to all your valuable programs. It just took me personally a couple weeks! I like paying attention to you read listener tales and also you sharing your very own tales because well. Plus, every one of the guests that are wonderful the show. I’ve actually discovered lot and share things with my hubby on a regular basis.
I need to be truthful. We start thinking about myself pretty vanilla, but in no way is the sex my guy and I also have is dull or boring. It’s awesome.
I suppose the one thing I would like to ask is I think it might be excellent in the event that you could perhaps provide your very own concept of just what several things are. Like, we had never ever heard the word ‘vanilla’ on your show until I heard it. Dawn you’re so good at explaining shit. You are doing it in method that i could comprehend. You’re simply awesome.
So yeah. That don’t have such an awesome sexual vocabulary as you if you could, in your own words, break down what something means for those of us. Love your stuff, Dawn, and miss Dylan so fuckin much!
Many thanks a great deal, Anonymous. Just what a great demand!
I’ve built a sex that is little list down below. Please consider they are maybe perhaps not formal definitions, but instead my definition that is own based my experience and use.
Please feel free to comment together with your definitions in the bottom for the post, too. Particularly if you have a understanding that is significantly different.
Dawn Serra’s Unofficial Unalphabetized SGR Dictionary
Vanilla : intimate functions and habits that fit within that which you think about typical/traditional for a sexual relationship. “Traditional” is normally informed by the moms and dads, your community, your identification, your intimate history, and your lovers.